07-03-2023, 01:44 AM
Remember The Last Psychiatrist? The blog that used the word 'narcissism' a lot and really wanted self conscious people with good intentions looking to become better social people to judge themselves and feel really bad? Let's talk about him.
This would be an autopsy thread, but he apparently just came back recently. I haven't checked in, but if any of you have feel free to update us if there's anything new and of interest.
I've spelled out where I'm going in the first line, no need to drag this out. I think that TLP was a decent and for some people good or needed phenomena in that he spurred a lot of introspection and internal development of people. Engaging with him could be mentally fruitful. But I also think that as an influence/teacher he is someone who it's not just good to, but necessary to challenge and move beyond. If you actually take his thoughts, challenges, accusations, and at times more or less baseless moral hysterics seriously you'll just collapse into a black hole of self recrimination. As a friend of mine put it several times in discussions of this figure back in the day, the kind of person would worry about being a narcissist can't really be one. An actual one would if anything find the thought kind of pleasing/flattering.
If you're reading something like TLP and are anxious about if you're a good enough person I would say you are a kind of conscientious elite among humanity. You do have the capacity to be pushed to even greater heights relative to where you are. AnD maybe some harsh prodding could be good for that. BUT I believe that if not tempered by a bit of perspective and awareness towards The Dark Masses and some self sympathy it again just collapses. TLP can say it's not his job to police the whole world, he's got a particular audience, fair. But the whole project strikes me as a bit anarcho-tyrannical. Pop-psych declaring war upon the thoughtful and caring while ignoring that most of the human race gives so little of a fuck that they're completely deaf to the suggestion they should DO BETTER.
Sorry if this is hard to gauge because you lack the history of the subject. Let me try to catch you up. TLP was the "narcissism" blogger. Narcissism most basically defined as building and favouring a pleasing image of yourself over the reality of how you engage with and make an impact upon the world. Act one way, but know you're really not like that. Act self consciously in alignment with how you want to or think you ought to be. Etc. All very normal human stuff. But someone with a sufficiently developed inner life and a sense things aren't quite right in life can really be made sore over poking of these issues. Again, maybe some people grew through greater awareness of their behaviours, blind spots, habits, etc.
I feel like maybe I did, but I would not consider the man an essential or good influence upon myself directly. In the sense of things he personally wrote. To me he was a spurring force. Nothing he wrote I consider lastingly useful to my understanding of humanity or myself. But the spurring led me to things I think served me far better. And mental/personal development is really more about motion than the right answers. So perhaps a very good thing, for me, that he existed.
That's my encounter with him, but I am perhaps an outlier. I only have the anecdote of my own experience. And I am inclined to doubt his quality as an influence upon the internet. He offers nothing you can really put to good use personally. He admits several times that his patients rarely if ever get any better. All of his personal advice whenever given (sparingly) amounts to touching grass and nothing thinking so much because that's a trait of dirty narcissistic chuds. I think it's the great weakness and crime of 21st century psychs that they can't acknowledge massive areas of genuine human grievance so they all become corrupt shitlib moralist cops telling you to suppress your soul for the sake of civility. In the 20th century they had the decency to believe circumstances could and should be better, even if that mostly took the form of communism.
I forget who it was, doesn't matter as they're all the same. I read some twitter gen-x remorseful troll goblin's substack post about being a good fucking person. And it was just an eclectic blunderbuss blast of random personal attacks paired with vague accusations of moral failure. I was reading this, perfectly comfortable and aware of the baselessness and desperate cruelty of the thing, then I realised it was familiar and I felt like I already had this guy's number because I was just reading TLP again. I hadn't thought of the guy in a long time, then this was what brought him to mind. He was kind of like the boss goblin of the mental dungeon all of these freaks live in. And because of that I'm glad to have encountered him. I feel like the experience made me stronger.
Sorry about the lack of media or links in this post. Lots of things I remember, not many I've found. Actually I just went and dug up one for your benefit. The substack post mentioned above.
https://eggreport.substack.com/p/how-to-...cial-media
Look. He's a Garfield fan. I don't need to read it again. I know he's human garbage.
This would be an autopsy thread, but he apparently just came back recently. I haven't checked in, but if any of you have feel free to update us if there's anything new and of interest.
I've spelled out where I'm going in the first line, no need to drag this out. I think that TLP was a decent and for some people good or needed phenomena in that he spurred a lot of introspection and internal development of people. Engaging with him could be mentally fruitful. But I also think that as an influence/teacher he is someone who it's not just good to, but necessary to challenge and move beyond. If you actually take his thoughts, challenges, accusations, and at times more or less baseless moral hysterics seriously you'll just collapse into a black hole of self recrimination. As a friend of mine put it several times in discussions of this figure back in the day, the kind of person would worry about being a narcissist can't really be one. An actual one would if anything find the thought kind of pleasing/flattering.
If you're reading something like TLP and are anxious about if you're a good enough person I would say you are a kind of conscientious elite among humanity. You do have the capacity to be pushed to even greater heights relative to where you are. AnD maybe some harsh prodding could be good for that. BUT I believe that if not tempered by a bit of perspective and awareness towards The Dark Masses and some self sympathy it again just collapses. TLP can say it's not his job to police the whole world, he's got a particular audience, fair. But the whole project strikes me as a bit anarcho-tyrannical. Pop-psych declaring war upon the thoughtful and caring while ignoring that most of the human race gives so little of a fuck that they're completely deaf to the suggestion they should DO BETTER.
Sorry if this is hard to gauge because you lack the history of the subject. Let me try to catch you up. TLP was the "narcissism" blogger. Narcissism most basically defined as building and favouring a pleasing image of yourself over the reality of how you engage with and make an impact upon the world. Act one way, but know you're really not like that. Act self consciously in alignment with how you want to or think you ought to be. Etc. All very normal human stuff. But someone with a sufficiently developed inner life and a sense things aren't quite right in life can really be made sore over poking of these issues. Again, maybe some people grew through greater awareness of their behaviours, blind spots, habits, etc.
I feel like maybe I did, but I would not consider the man an essential or good influence upon myself directly. In the sense of things he personally wrote. To me he was a spurring force. Nothing he wrote I consider lastingly useful to my understanding of humanity or myself. But the spurring led me to things I think served me far better. And mental/personal development is really more about motion than the right answers. So perhaps a very good thing, for me, that he existed.
That's my encounter with him, but I am perhaps an outlier. I only have the anecdote of my own experience. And I am inclined to doubt his quality as an influence upon the internet. He offers nothing you can really put to good use personally. He admits several times that his patients rarely if ever get any better. All of his personal advice whenever given (sparingly) amounts to touching grass and nothing thinking so much because that's a trait of dirty narcissistic chuds. I think it's the great weakness and crime of 21st century psychs that they can't acknowledge massive areas of genuine human grievance so they all become corrupt shitlib moralist cops telling you to suppress your soul for the sake of civility. In the 20th century they had the decency to believe circumstances could and should be better, even if that mostly took the form of communism.
I forget who it was, doesn't matter as they're all the same. I read some twitter gen-x remorseful troll goblin's substack post about being a good fucking person. And it was just an eclectic blunderbuss blast of random personal attacks paired with vague accusations of moral failure. I was reading this, perfectly comfortable and aware of the baselessness and desperate cruelty of the thing, then I realised it was familiar and I felt like I already had this guy's number because I was just reading TLP again. I hadn't thought of the guy in a long time, then this was what brought him to mind. He was kind of like the boss goblin of the mental dungeon all of these freaks live in. And because of that I'm glad to have encountered him. I feel like the experience made me stronger.
Sorry about the lack of media or links in this post. Lots of things I remember, not many I've found. Actually I just went and dug up one for your benefit. The substack post mentioned above.
https://eggreport.substack.com/p/how-to-...cial-media
Look. He's a Garfield fan. I don't need to read it again. I know he's human garbage.