10-27-2023, 03:04 PM
With modern advents like dating apps, female empowerment, social media etc. the sexual economy that we live in today is different than all previous eras (mostly for the worse,) and no boomer advice seems relevant. For all the pro-incel memes (frivolous or genuine) we mostly obfuscate the fundamental problem of man's sexual need by talking about Total Woman Death or what have you. Frogs and Amarnites seem to rather not want to talk about this seriously, which leads to the only ones talking about this being PUA type retards and quasi-normies, but we all know that the need exists and cannot simply be ignored in practice so I think it's worth Amarnite analysis. I'll be discussing a few different avenues men go to fill the need, I'd like to hear further insight into any of these strands or bringing up other ways not mentioned.
Dating
Dating is of course the most normal, one could say lindy, of the ways men go to fill the need. In this path you either are genuinely looking to get married or you're fooling her or yourself into thinking that's the goal when really you just want to get sex. Much of the downfalls of modern marriage and dating have already been elaborated (fat, unserious women, divorce rates, etc.) so I won't spend too much time going over them here. I do have one thing to add that may be original to this discussion though; In my view, contraception is the biggest cuck to modern dating. I've had the theory for a while that evolutionarily, if a woman is having sex with a man for 6+ months and she still shows no sign of pregnancy, that's a signal that this man is infertile and she should look elsewhere to get knocked up.
Sleeping around
Sadly, the era of going out to bars alone, talking up women, trying to get laid, is so incredibly over. That era, for all it's faults, was a better time than ours. Now we have dating apps, which seem to be the only method of getting casual sex as a man today. Men who would usually get by on their ability to impress women with their conversation and humor are hit hard by this; I'm sure the average Amarnite will relate here, as average looking but high IQ guys are totally unselected for in favor of the guy who looks good on camera. You end up spending an absurd amount of time swiping, to have an absurd amount of sterile message exchanges, only to end up actually hooking up with a few women a month, of which the sex usually isn't very good because one night stands almost never are. The best outcome here is a friends with benefits situation, but in my experience these don't last long at all because the women almost certainly will catch feelings and you either have to cut it off or go back to Dating.
"Mgtow"
There's a lot of truth to the mgtow (men going their own way) movement and attitude, and while I'm not especially familiar with it's discourse, I'm suspicsious of it. Mostly because, as I've said, every man has a sexual need. Mgtow people are often associated with nofap/semen retention, which I'm even more suspicious of. You really push these people on nofap and they either end up telling you that they do, in fact, jack off, or they're old and their dick doesn't work anymore anyways. Any young man who's actually tried this knows what I'm talking about. You go a week without cumming and it ends up coming out in your sleep. Now you just woke up in the middle of the night, and you have to clean the sheets. (Is this post too gross yet? Bare with me, it'll get worse.) Mgtow, in practice for the young man means jacking off at least a few times a week, probably more, and develop a porn reliance of some sort, not to mention the psychological pain from not having sex. It's a legitimate path, but it definitely isn't ideal.
Faggotry
As an avid listener to Carribean Rythms, I must include this topic. While it is the case that many ancient aristocratic men saw no problem with raping a slave boy to fulfill their need, and I have no problem in concept with this, I'm still viscerally disgusted with homosexuality. Atop this visceral disgust, faggots today are riddled with STDs and are generally insufferable people. I don't expect any Amarnite to be brave enough to discuss this, but it's worth mentioning.
Prosties
Acceptance of prosties is more general than you'd imagine in the frog community. If you ask your groupchat "what do you think about prosties" you won't get much of a response, but doing an anonymous poll I found about 2/3 of my groupchat said prosties were good. The quality and price of prosties will vary wildly depending on what part of the world you're in. For example, I just moved from a major city in the US where you could get a pretty attractive and skilled prostie for around $600/hour. This is probably still too much compared to what you can get outside the US, but it was still good enough while I was living there. But upon moving to a smaller US city, I found that I was paying more for less, and it quickly became untenable. I've thought about trips down to mexico, but looking into the statistics I found that the STD rate for Mexican prosties is crazy, and of course finding one with enough colonizer blood in her to be attractive wouldn't be that easy to begin with.
Dating
Dating is of course the most normal, one could say lindy, of the ways men go to fill the need. In this path you either are genuinely looking to get married or you're fooling her or yourself into thinking that's the goal when really you just want to get sex. Much of the downfalls of modern marriage and dating have already been elaborated (fat, unserious women, divorce rates, etc.) so I won't spend too much time going over them here. I do have one thing to add that may be original to this discussion though; In my view, contraception is the biggest cuck to modern dating. I've had the theory for a while that evolutionarily, if a woman is having sex with a man for 6+ months and she still shows no sign of pregnancy, that's a signal that this man is infertile and she should look elsewhere to get knocked up.
Sleeping around
Sadly, the era of going out to bars alone, talking up women, trying to get laid, is so incredibly over. That era, for all it's faults, was a better time than ours. Now we have dating apps, which seem to be the only method of getting casual sex as a man today. Men who would usually get by on their ability to impress women with their conversation and humor are hit hard by this; I'm sure the average Amarnite will relate here, as average looking but high IQ guys are totally unselected for in favor of the guy who looks good on camera. You end up spending an absurd amount of time swiping, to have an absurd amount of sterile message exchanges, only to end up actually hooking up with a few women a month, of which the sex usually isn't very good because one night stands almost never are. The best outcome here is a friends with benefits situation, but in my experience these don't last long at all because the women almost certainly will catch feelings and you either have to cut it off or go back to Dating.
"Mgtow"
There's a lot of truth to the mgtow (men going their own way) movement and attitude, and while I'm not especially familiar with it's discourse, I'm suspicsious of it. Mostly because, as I've said, every man has a sexual need. Mgtow people are often associated with nofap/semen retention, which I'm even more suspicious of. You really push these people on nofap and they either end up telling you that they do, in fact, jack off, or they're old and their dick doesn't work anymore anyways. Any young man who's actually tried this knows what I'm talking about. You go a week without cumming and it ends up coming out in your sleep. Now you just woke up in the middle of the night, and you have to clean the sheets. (Is this post too gross yet? Bare with me, it'll get worse.) Mgtow, in practice for the young man means jacking off at least a few times a week, probably more, and develop a porn reliance of some sort, not to mention the psychological pain from not having sex. It's a legitimate path, but it definitely isn't ideal.
Faggotry
As an avid listener to Carribean Rythms, I must include this topic. While it is the case that many ancient aristocratic men saw no problem with raping a slave boy to fulfill their need, and I have no problem in concept with this, I'm still viscerally disgusted with homosexuality. Atop this visceral disgust, faggots today are riddled with STDs and are generally insufferable people. I don't expect any Amarnite to be brave enough to discuss this, but it's worth mentioning.
Prosties
Acceptance of prosties is more general than you'd imagine in the frog community. If you ask your groupchat "what do you think about prosties" you won't get much of a response, but doing an anonymous poll I found about 2/3 of my groupchat said prosties were good. The quality and price of prosties will vary wildly depending on what part of the world you're in. For example, I just moved from a major city in the US where you could get a pretty attractive and skilled prostie for around $600/hour. This is probably still too much compared to what you can get outside the US, but it was still good enough while I was living there. But upon moving to a smaller US city, I found that I was paying more for less, and it quickly became untenable. I've thought about trips down to mexico, but looking into the statistics I found that the STD rate for Mexican prosties is crazy, and of course finding one with enough colonizer blood in her to be attractive wouldn't be that easy to begin with.